People are so quick to judge now a days. You only see a person from what they want and allow you to see. I always try to look as put together as I can and I guess that's my way of hiding from the truth. It just that's the way  everyone will assume that everything in my life is okay. That I never go through anything. If only everyone knew how broken I am, and how I'm holding on for dear life on this one last strand that's recently become very delicate.

Love always♥mhargie♥

♥50 THINGS I WANT TO BE♥

1.       I want to be independent.

2.       I want to be content with my life

3.       I want to make the most of what I have.

4.       I want to be loved.

5.       I want to be assertive.

6.       I want to be the person who brightens your day.

7.       I want to travel the world.

8.       I want to be the best person I can be.

9.       I want to be Myself and live my life the way I want to.

10.   I want to be colorful, because that’s what I would be if I showed who I am.

11.   I want to be relaxed.

12.   I want to be the one who smiles.

13.   I want to be an adult with the soul of a kid.

14.   I want to breathe and to be myself always, not only when I am home.

15.   I want to be more self-expressed every day.

16.   I want to be part of a meaningful community.

17.   I want to be free in every sense.

18.   I want to be fearless.

19.   I want to be adventurous, daring, bold.

20.   I want to be glorious.

21.   I want to be a writer.

22.   I want to be successful at all I do.

23.   I want to be creatively intuitive in my crafts.

24.   I want to be driven to achieve greatness.

25.   I want to touch the lives of those around me.

26.   I want to give back and receive the gift of pure happiness.

27.   I want to embrace my imperfections.

28.   I want to remember everything.

29.   I want to stop being afraid of living.

30.   I want to be someone who can connect easily and deeply with others.

31.   I want to be in tune with my desires.

32.   I want to treat myself and others with fierce compassion.

33.   I want to create journals to hold people’s dreams.

34.   I want to practice moderation in all things – including moderation.I want to never stop learning.

35.   I want to be free spirited and fun loving.

36.   I want to be able to let go of my inhibitions.

37.   I want to believe in myself.

38.   I want to be powerful and strong.

39.   I want to be sexy, and actually believe it.

40.   I want to live my life, the way I want to live it.

41.   I want to be free.

42.   I want to be brave.

43.   I want to be grateful  to everyone & everything that comes my way.

44.   I want to be a writer; I want that spirit to embody me without fail.

45.   I want to be understanding, patient, intuitive and  alive.

46.   I want to be blissfully aware of my purpose in this world; I want to touch lives with it.

47.   I want to be honest. Always.

48.   I want to be unafraid of death & dying.

49.   I want to be bold.

50.   I want to be remembered.

                                                  

love always♥mhargie♥

Don't Quit ...

"When things go wrong as they sometimes will,

  When the road you're trudging seems all up hill

  When the funds are low and the debts are high

  And you want to smile, but you have to sigh

  When care is pressing you down a bit

  Rest if you must, but don't you quit

  Life is queer with it's twist and turns

  As every one of us sometimes learns

  And many a failure turns about

  When he might have won had he stuck it out

  Don't give up though the pace seems slow--

  You may succeed with another blow

  Success is failure turned inside out--

  The silver tint of the clouds of doubt

  And you never can tell how close you are

  It may be near when it seems so far

  So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit

  It's when things seem worse that you must not quit."

-Don't Quit by Edgar A. Guest

Love always♥mhargie♥

An unexpected turn..

            Sometimes we don't understand why God allows tragedies to happen. But we know that he is compassionate God who never makes mistakes. He allows things to take place within His perfect will. When life delivers an unexpected blow, God is still in control.
            Although I can't always understand why I face hardships and experience unexpected turns. But I can stand firmly on God who said " I will never leave you nor forsake you".God is in control, no matter what's happening in my life. He's there, He cares and loves. Always has, always will be and I do believe He can change unexpected turns into meaningful diversion.

                    
                Have Faith, Be strong.

My prayer:
Lord, you know me inside and out. You know about my pain and distress,you understand the fears of my heart. 
Lord, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties.  For when I am weak, then I am strong. My heart is broken and my spirit mourns but all I know is that Your grace is sufficient. This day, this hour, moment by moment, I choose to lean on You. Thank you for teaching me to always trust in You. Give me strength. Help me to keep my eyes focused on You. I trust in You, oh Lord. For you are my rock!  Help me not to worry, for You are in control. Though I am weak, You will make me strong!  I love you, Lord!  In Jesus name. Amen.♥

Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God.

I will strengthen you and help you.

    I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.

Isaiah 41:10

Love always♥mhargie♥ 

Rules to a better life♥

• Never hate.
• Live simply.
• Serve.
• Give a lot.
• Always smile.
• Live with God.
• Walk with God.

Love always♥mhargie♥

“When life is sweet, say thank you and celebrate. And when life is bitter, say thank you and grow.” 

― Shauna Niequist, Bittersweet: Thoughts on Change, Grace, and Learning the Hard Way




                  Love always♥mhargie♥

Date a girl who writes.

                              

                      Date a girl who may never wear completely clean clothes, because of coffee stains and ink spills. She’ll have many problems with her closet space, and her laptop is never boring because there are so many words, so many worlds that she’s cluttered amidst the space. Tabs open filled with obscure and popular music. Interesting factoids about Catherine the Great, and the immortality of jellyfish. Laugh it off when she tells you that she forgot to clean her room, that her clothes are lost among the binders so it’ll take her longer to get ready, that her shoes hidden under the mountain of broken Bic pens and the refurbished laptop that she’s saved for ever since she was twelve. Kiss her under the lamppost, when it’s raining. Tell her your definition of love.

         Find a girl who writes. You’ll know that she has a sense of humor, a sense of empathy and kindness, and that she will dream up worlds, universes for you. She’s the one with the faintest of shadows underneath her eyelids, the one who smells of coffee and Coca-cola and jasmine green tea. You see that girl hunched over a notebook. That’s the writer. With her fingers occasionally smudged with charcoal, with ink that will travel onto your hands when you interlock your fingers with her. She will never stop, churning out adventures, of traitors and heroes. Darkness and light. Fear and love. That’s the writer. She can never resist filling a blank page with words, whatever the color of the page is.

         She’s the girl reading while waiting for her coffee and tea. She’s the quiet girl with her music turned up loud (or impossibly quiet), separating the two of you by an ocean of crescendos and decrescendos as she’s thinking of the perfect words. If you take a peek at her cup, the tea or coffee’s already cold. She’s already forgotten it.Use a pick-up line with her if she doesn’t look to busy.If she raises her head, offer to buy her another cup of coffee. Or of tea. She’ll repay you with stories. If she closes her laptop, give her your critique of Tolstoy, and your best theories of Hannibal and the Crossing. Tell her your characters, your dreams, and ask if she gotten through her first novel.

           It is hard to date a girl who writes. But be patient with her. Give her books for her birthday, pretty notebooks for Christmas and for anniversaries, moleskins and bookmarks and many, many books. Give her the gift of words, for writers are talkative people, and they are verbose in their thanks. Let her know that you’re behind her every step of the way, for the lines between fiction and reality are fluid.She’ll give you a chance.Don’t lie to her. She’ll understand the syntax behind your words. She’ll be disappointed by your lies, but a girl who writes will understand. She’ll understand that sometimes even the greatest heroes fail, and that happy ending takes time, both in fiction and reality. She’s realistic. A girl who writes isn’t impatient; she will understand your flaws. She will cherish them, because a girl who writes will understand plot. She’ll understand that endings happen for better or for worse.

        A girl who writes will not expect perfection from you. Her narratives are rich, her characters are multifaceted because of interesting flaws. She’ll understand that a good book does not have perfect characters; villains and tragic flaws are the salt of books. She’ll understand trouble, because it spices up her story. No author wants an invincible hero; the girl who writes will understand that you are only human.Be her compatriot, be her darling, her love, her dream, her world.

          If you find a girl who writes, keep her close. If you find her at two AM, typing furiously, the neon gaze of the light illuminating her furrowed forehead, place a blanket gently on her so that she does not catch a chill. Make her a pot of tea, and sit with her. You may lose her to her world for a few moments, but she will come back to you, brimming with treasure. You will believe in her every single time, the two of you illuminated only by the computer screen, but invincible in the darkness.

She is your Shahrazad. When you are afraid of the dark, she will guide you, her words turning into lanterns, turning into lights and stars and candles that will guide you through your darkest times. She’ll be the one to save you.She’ll whisk you away on a hot air balloon, and you will be smitten with her. She’s mischievous, frisky, yet she’s quiet and when she has to kill off a lovely character, when she cries, hold her and tell her that it will be alright.You will propose to her. Maybe on a boat in the ocean, maybe in a little cottage in the Appalachian Mountains. Maybe in New York City. Maybe Chicago. Baltimore. Maybe outside her publisher’s office. Because she’s radiant, wherever she goes. Maybe even outside of a cinema where the two of you kiss in the rain. She’ll say that it is overused and clichéd, but the glint in her eyes will tell you that she appreciates it all the same.You will smile hard as she talks a mile a second, and your heart will skip a beat when she holds your hand and she will write stories of your lives together. She’ll hold you close and whisper secrets into your ears. She’s lovely, remember that. She’s self made and she’s brilliant. Her names for the children might be terrible, but you’ll be okay with that. A girl who writes will tell your children fantastical stories. Because that is the best part about a girl who writes. She has imagination and she has courage, and it will be enough. She’ll save you in the oceans of her dreams, and she’ll be your catharsis and your 11:11. She’ll be your firebird and she’ll be your knight, and she’ll become your world, in the curve of her smile, in the hazel of her eye the half-dimple on her face, the words that are pouring out of her, a torrent, a wave, a crescendo - so many sensations that you will be left breathless by a girl who writes.Maybe she’s not the best at grammar, but that is okay.

         Date a girl who writes because you deserve it. She’s witty, she’s empathetic, enigmatic at times and she’s lovely. She’s got the most colorful life. She may be living in NYC or she may be living in a small cottage. Date a girl who writes because a girl who writes reads. 

         A girl who writes will understand reality. She’ll be infuriating at times, and maybe sometimes you will hate her. Sometimes she will hate you too. But a girl who writes understands human nature, and she will understand that you are weak. She will not leave on the Midnight Train the first moment that things go sour. She will understand that real life isn’t like a story, because while she works in stories, she lives in reality. Date a girl who writes. 

Because there is nothing better than a girl who writes.

Love always♥mhargie♥

The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her 
heart, the place where love resides.♥

Love always♥mhargie♥

“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often 
find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to 
share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be 
silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and 
bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our 
powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.” 

― Henri J.M. Nouwen, The Road to Daybreak: A Spiritual Journey


Love always♥mhargie♥

           It’s the oldest story in the world. One day you’re  planning for someday. And then quietly and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And that someday is yesterday. And this is your life. We spend so much time wanting, pursuing, wishing - but ambition is good, chasing things with integrity is good, dreaming. If you had a friend you knew you’d never see again, what would you say? If you could do one last thing for someone you love, what would it be? Say it, do it. Don’t wait. Nothing lasts forever. Make a wish, place it in your heart. Anything you want, everything you want. Do you have it? Good, now believe it can come true. You never know where the next miracle is going to come from, the next memory, the next smile, the next wish come true. But, if you believe that it’s right around the corner, and you open your heart and mind to the possiblity of it, to the certainty of it, you just might get the thing you wished for. The world is full of magic, you just have to believe in it. So make your wish, do you have it? Good. Now believe in it with all your heart.

-The ending quote of One Tree Hill 

Love always♥mhargie♥

Life is too short to stress ourselves with people who don't even deserve to be an issue in our lives.

    
Life seems to be much too short to be stressed over people who don't even deserve to be an afterthought in our minds. Instead of dedicating our thoughts and energy to someone who doesnt matter, focus on keeping people around us who do matter! 

The Path to Recovery♥

Nobody ever said that it would be easy, or that the skies would always be sunny. When gray days and worrisome times come alone, you need to stay strong. Know that everything will be okay.

When life has got you down, remember: it’s okay to feel vulnerable. You feel things deeply, and that is a wonderful quality to have. Rest assured that, in the long run, the good days would far outnumber the bad.

What is sometimes perceived as weakness is actually strength. The more you are bothered by something that is wrong, the more you are empowered to make things right. Each day is like a room you spend time in before you move on to the next. And in each room —- filled with possibilities that there is a door that leads to a more serenity in life.

Leave behind any little worries. Tomorrow they won’t matter, and next month you may not even remember what they were. Take the others one at a time, and you will be amazed at how your difficulties manage to become easier.

Find your smile. Warm yourself with your quiet determination and your knowledge of brighter days ahead. Do the things that need to be done. Say the words that need to be said.

Happiness is waiting for you. Believe in your ability. Cross your bridges. Listen to your heart. Your faith in tomorrow will always help you do what is right… and it will help you to be strong along the path to recovery.♥

♥The Path to Recovery♥

~By Collin McCarty~

HE WILL WIPE AWAY EVERY TEAR FROM THEIR EYES, AND DEATH SHALL BE NO MORE, NEITHER SHALL THERE BE MOURNING, NOR CRYING, NOR PAIN ANYMORE, FOR THE FORMER THINGS HAVE PASSED AWAY.” ~REVELATION 21:4

God has healed my broken heart and set me free! He opened my blind eyes. I have been delivered from the bondage of my own prison. I praise the Lord everyday. ♥

love always♥mhargie♥

God’s love is perfect♥

       There is nothing that can be added to or taken away from God’s love. It is complete. He cannot love you anymore than he does right now and his love for you yesterday was the same as it is today, and it will be the same tomorrow. And there is absolutely nothing that you can do to cause God to love you any less.


love always♥mhargie♥

Dedicated to every girl in the world♥

Treat her like shes more than you want..

more than you could ever dream..

and more than she thinks she is…

like shes everything youve ever wanted..

make sure you speak to her sweeter

and love her deeper be true

and be kind shes more than just a girl…

shes and angel without wings,

shes the sweetest thing in the world,

and is more precious than a thousand roses..

girls never frown because you never know

When someone is falling In love♥ with your smile,

let her know you care…

let her know by doing something special for her

call her everynight just to make sure everthings alright

and to remind her you still care..

always wish her the sweetest dreams…

when she cries let your shoulder be the first she rests her head upon,

and cry with her,

letting her know shes not alone,

when she laughs let you be the first to hear her,

when shes down help her laugh but most of all guys…

when you tell her you love her let her see the tears in your eyes♥

                            Dedicated to every girl in the world♥ By cox.

love always♥mhargie♥

QUOTE FOR TODAY. “To forgive is the highest, most beautiful form of love. In return, you will receive untold peace and happiness.”

love always♥mhargie♥

Things I want to avoid

• ARGUMENTS
• Friends who ended up liking and caring me
• Freak People
• Boys who smoke cigarettes
• Debts
• Spending too much
• Stress

love always♥mhargie♥

The meaning of my name.

Margaret is a female first name, derived from the Greek word margarites (μαργαρίτης) meaning “pearl.” It may have originally been derived from the Sanskrit word मञ्यरी mañjarī.

Alternately, it might be of Persian origin, derived from the Persian language marvârid (مروارید), a pearl or daughter of light. The word is related to Marg from Marq or Marka meaning “chicken” (مرغ), probably because pearls looked like small bird eggs.

Margaret has been an English name since the 11th century, and remained popular throughout the Middle Ages. It became less popular between the 16th century and 18th century, but became more common again after this period, becoming the second most popular name in the United States in 1903. Since this time, it has become less common, but is still the ninth most common name for women of all ages in the United States as of the 1990 census.

It has a large number of diminutive forms in many different languages, including Maggie, Madge, Marge, Meg, Megan, Mog, Moggie, Rita, Daisy, Greta, Gretel, Gretchen, Magee, Marg, Margot, May, Molly, Margo Sanna, Margi Meggie, Peggy and Peg.

Love always♥mhargie♥

Whatever I have tried to do in life, I have tried with all my heart to do it well; whatever I have devoted myself to, I have devoted myself completely; in great aims and in small I have always thoroughly been in earnest.


love always♥mhargie♥

Stand up and live!

Stand up and live. Keep the Spirit and confidence. Be strong and Keep your faith by making the best out of it. For everything happens for a reason, a reason to teach you and correct you and a reason to bring the strength in you. Dwelling on things just ruins your life. Being mad or upset with others for things they have done is just a waste of your energy. You can’t change the past or the mistakes. You can only change your future. Enjoy your life to the fullest because you never know when it’s going to end. So smile more, love more and enjoy more♥

love always♥mhargie♥

Hi blogspot!! I'm back........

Hi  blogspot ^_^ I'm back ♥ From tumblr, I have decided to move here for personal reasons. Tumblr has been my home for the longest time! Going through my old posts, old personal blogs,  I believe it can already somehow cover  how my life has truly changed because of some circumstances that happened in my life and how my life has been. So now, here i am again.....

love always♥mhargie♥