Tuesday, January 5, 2016

MY SELFISH YEAR 2016


I find life itself is meant to be survived and to be reminded. If in the process, I need to find time to live, love and learn again and again and again. And be inspired all over again and again and again. When my heart became cold gray I've experienced the thing where I could not feel anything anymore and I thought it would be the end of me. (I'm definitely wrong, yeah, right!)
So after I finished doing and thinking about my faith goals 2016, I am inspired by this article I have read from power of positivity. It's actually familiar to me during when I was active in tumblr and I'd like to share this to remind myself and be inspired because it's new year already and I dont want to have another 2015, 2014, 2013 anymore. I am desperately desiring a new life with no worries. I am desperately maintaining a life with peace of mind. 

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When you observe today’s world, you might come to the conclusion that people seem self-absorbed, entitled, and selfish. In the age of selfies, self-promotion, and self-indulgence, we seem to have an obsession with garnering attention and inflating our egos…on the surface. However, if we dive deeper into this idea of focusing on ourselves, we can start to understand why putting ourselves first, having confidence, and loving ourselves serves as the foundation for building a healthy, happy life.

“I choose to honor my feelings. I choose to give myself permission to get my needs met. I choose to make self-care a priority. I choose me.” – Daniell Koepke

Before we continue, let’s first look at some definitions.

Self – a person’s essential being that distinguishes them from others, especially considered as the object of introspection or reflexive action.

Selfish – (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure.

What if we combined these two definitions to encompass the idea of having consideration for others by becoming better people ourselves? If you still think this sounds selfish, we hope you will hear us out as we explain why you shouldn’t feel guilty about making this coming year all about you.

HERE ARE 7 REASONS WHY YOU NEED TO MAKE 2016 YOUR SELFISH YEAR:

1. YOU WILL HAVE BETTER RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS.
Have you ever noticed how many people in the world have rifts and struggles in their relationships? Whether with their bosses, parents, lovers, or friends, so many relationships become tarnished and weathered by pain, guilt, anger, and just the strain of daily life. Underlying these seemingly unstoppable issues is one core problem: a lack of love for oneself.

Remember, if you don’t take time and energy to break through your own barriers and become love yourself, you will always seek it from others. When you strip away worldly attachments, relationships, desires, and everything else, you just have you. As you learn how to have a healthy relationship with yourself, and not allow your ego to bring you down, all your relationships will start to go through a metamorphosis.

All relationships in life depend on how deeply you can love yourself, because you attract what you are. Life is simply a mirror, so if you don’t see love and understanding when you look outside yourself, you have to first correct the blockages and negative thinking patterns within.

2. YOU WILL LEARN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
This world could use some more love, but unfortunately, most people look outside themselves for acceptance. We live in an age where we pine for likes and comments on our pictures to give us self-worth, but we do very little to garner this feeling ourselves. We don’t spend enough time healing our souls, wrapping our arms around our insecurities and giving ourselves the love we deserve.

If we don’t offer ourselves affection and compassion, how can we ever expect to receive that from other people? By loving yourself wholeheartedly and unconditionally, you will have so much goodness in your heart and soul that it will overflow, attracting others who also love themselves.

In the age of self-indulgence, don’t be afraid to indulge in your own love. Nothing feels better than having so much love for yourself that nothing outside of you can possibly take it away.

3. YOU WILL UPLIFT THE LIVES OF EVERYONE AROUND YOU.
By loving yourself, others will feel better just by interacting with you and being in your presence. If others see you acting carefree and blissful, it encourages them to act positively and see the good in themselves, too. Simply put, by putting your needs first and healing past wounds within yourself, you don’t just change your life; you change the world.

4. YOU WILL IMPROVE YOUR HEALTH.
Inevitably, when people begin to search inwardly for answers, they discover that they run the show. They make all the decisions in their lives, including how healthy they choose to be. By loving yourself, you will only want to put loving things in your body. You won’t want fake processed foods and sugary carbonated drinks; you’ll want foods that increase your energy and vitality, and make you feel more loved and cared for. Taking time to prepare healthy meals full of living foods does not make you selfish; caring for yourself does not make you selfish. It makes you born again, transformed into an improved human being, and nothing about that is selfish.

5. YOU WILL GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY.
Much of our problems exist on this planet because we don’t love ourselves; heck, we don’t even like ourselves. We allow our minds to control us like puppets, dictating our every move and making us believe we have no value. Therefore, we create chaos and destruction because we feel we cannot control ourselves. The lack of love in our world directly reflects the lack of love for ourselves. When we step out of our own way, out of the shadows and into the light, we make the world a little less burdened. By putting ourselves first and removing all of the old, deflating thought patterns, we set ourselves free. And the world becomes a little lighter, in turn.

6. YOU WILL LEARN TO BECOME YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND.
Not only will you attract people who also love and care for themselves, but you will learn to be there for yourself when no one else is. You will no longer feel lonely; you will simply enjoy alone time when you have it, without feeling anxious or depressed. Going deep within yourself and gaining greater understanding will allow you to truly know yourself, which will increase your self-confidence and self-esteem.

7. YOU WILL START MAKING BETTER DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF.
Finally, taking time to love yourself will remove everything that no longer serves you, therefore, bringing better things and people into your life. Decision-making will seem much easier, because you will know exactly who you are and what you want out of life. By knowing and loving the Self, you can make choices that reflect your new state of being, and those decisions will fall into perfect alignment with your ultimate goals and desires.

So you see, focusing on the self does not equate to selfishness. True selfish behavior means you only look out for yourself, with no regard for others. However, self-love and care are selfless in nature, because you aren’t becoming a better person to obtain anything from others; you’re changing yourself to have a better relationship with yourself and others. To see and appreciate yourself for who you truly are so you can do the same to others. And nothing about that is selfish.

SO, BE SELFISH IN 2016; YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE BUT THE THOUGHTS THAT HOLD YOU BACK FROM BECOMING YOUR BEST SELF.




Love always♥mhargie♥

I'm in a Hallway...

Life is like a hallway it sometimes seems dark but you always try your best to get trough even when you can't see where your going, when you reach your destination you feel as if your done, the truth is that outside that room is a world waiting to be explored an ever expanding world of opportunities



I have read this article few days ago and I'd like to share this since it is very timely in my life and only few people knows exactly what is going through in my life today. I'd like to share some words of wisdom to live by. 





We spend one third of our life asleep. Nine years watching television. And a woman spends a year and a half of her life cleaning. Has anyone calculated how much time the average Joe spends in a hallway?
Isaiah 22:22 reassures us that when God closes a door, he opens another. But what happens when a door closes and another one doesn't open? How do you handle life in the hall?

Longing to move on yet stuck in the middle. Ready to run but the baton not passed on. Life is moving all around but you are standing still. Hallways are blank, small, and empty spaces. A means to an end. The prelude to the main event.But imagine a home with no hall. An office building without a corridor. Where doors lead from one room to another without transition. It would be unpleasant and awkward.
Halls are more valuable than they seem. Transitions are a natural part of life. Human babies have a nine month gestation. Toddlers learn to crawl before they walk. Teenagers receive a learner's license before permission to drive. Couples are engaged before they marry. The transitory purpose is more than optional, it is necessary.
The Bible is full of examples of people in transition. Joseph was in the hallway of prison. The children of Israel wandered in the wilderness. David's vestibule was a cave. Jesus' hallway was forty days of prayer and fasting. Paul's metamorphosis was blindness.As you can see, hallways aren't pleasant leads-me-beside-still-water experiences. They are stifling, yet vital in moving forward. Be thankful for the hallway.

1. Embrace the HallwayAn interior designer might explain the hall as a cleansing of the palate. Hallways give respite from the business of the previous room, and prepare you for the sensory stimulation of the next.The same is true for our lives. We need hallways. Space between projects is necessary. Jumping from one stage of life headlong into another is not wise. A recipe for burnout.Hallways are a time of rest. The exasperation of upheaval can heighten stress, but relax. Enjoy the break. Learn to stop and smell the roses. Embrace the hallway. You won't be there forever.

2. Your Worth is Found in ChristPlenty of people are secure in ministry or career, however take it away and they crumble in a heap. Significance is through Christ, not what you do. Being comfortable doing nothing is a good sign. If you find yourself going stir crazy take a look at where you find validation.You are loved by Almighty God, Creator of all. He loves you because you are his. Let go of the doing. Focus on being. Being his child. Being alive. Being whole. The hallway will sort itself out.

3. What Happens in the Hallway Changes You ForeverHallway moments take a whole lot of patience and trust. You can ask questions, just don't expect answers. Kick and scream, but in the hall, nobody is going to hear. It's a process.My husband and I have been living in the hallway for a little while now. The next door is not completely open, but ajar. Hall time almost over.I wish I could tell you I practiced what I preach, but I yelled, questioned and struggled, through the depth and darkness of this perplexing time.But through the hall I grew.I learned to trust God without the answers.I learned to wrestle and be left with a limp.I learned to be angry and not take it out on others.I learned to wait for God's timing and favor to collide.I learned to love him when things weren't going according to plan in the blank, claustrophobic, awkward hallway.Transition births momentum - passion and enthusiasm for the next phase, a hope of things to come. Hold on, friend. You will not be in the hallway forever. Your time will come. God is about to open a door no man can shut. Savor your time in the hallway, for the next phase is explosive.


What have you learned in the hallway of life?



Love always♥mhargie♥

Friday, January 1, 2016


The first sunset of a new year
New colors: pinks, reds
Streak the horizon where the forest of trees end.
Take me into your December sky
So I can drown in it and
Your January eyes. Seek me
The light under which you sleep
Foreign lands, foreign tongues
My hands, foreign when they first found yours.
Likewise we explore all the crevices of these homes
Where our hearts slumber all alone
I know that you want to go
Where no one can find you.
I know that you want to go to a place where you don’t know anything but the sun, the air, the open world.
I know that’s where you want to go and
I want to go too.
Do you want me to come?
Do you want me to go?


—   “Take Me Into Your December Sky” - Nishat Ahmed


Love always♥mhargie♥

Wednesday, December 30, 2015

My Faith Goals 2016

“I know that I have not yet reached that goal, but there is one thing I always do. Forgetting the past and straining toward what is ahead, I keep trying to reach the goal and get the prize for which God called me through Christ to the life above.” (Philippians 3:13-14 NCV)




Faith Goals 2016:

  • To pray more for others. To pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks.
  • To walk in peace,forgiveness and unity.
  • Continuously walk in accountability and transparency
  • To love other people more and live life with purity and holiness
  • To be more  socially responsible (continuously pray the nations)
  • To lead people with integrity ,faith and excellence



Personal:

Restore broken relationship with my bestfriends
More Quiet time with God
Read more and more books:-)
To have more Compassionate friends who will pray for me instead of talking about me.
To travel a lot. 
Have focus in all areas of life.
To blog, create and inspire.
To be thrifty and be productive this 2016



Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.”  (Proverbs 16:3, NIV)

I pray 2016 will surprise me with beautiful things. I declare Victory in all areas of my life. In Jesus name. Amen ♥



Love always♥mhargie♥

2015: A Reflection



Looking back, 2015 was been challenging year for me and it's like a daring adventure. Troubles, personal hardships and genuine challenges that 2015 has brought made me stronger and firm. I encountered fooled and liar people, twisted you around after all good things I've done to them and faced tough situations where the only option was to be strong. Eventually, I surpassed all those trials that came into my life where it test my integrity. I have no regrets because I chose to be real and honest, I have decided not to take revenge and submit everything to God rather. On the other hand , I'm grateful because I have genuine friends who are always been there for me and of course my family and my home where I can rest peacefully. I tried to live away from  them but it kills me. It is really essential that we have home at the end of the day. My mother's love and support is always been the best of everything that God gave to me. She's there when I made mistakes and failures in life, ready to hug and accept me time and again. She's there to understand eventhough I have never tell any of my problems to her but I know She feels it because she is my mother. 

I am a kind of person that never tell anyone apart from God about my personal hardship because I believe in my own capabilities yet I cant deny the fact that I'm just a human, I breakdown, subdued and shattered several times but my faith is always been my hope to lift me up. There were so many things that has happened in my twenty six years of existence and I believe no one is living without hardship in life, everyone is fighting a hard battle in this cruel world. One of the lessons that I have learned in life is be careful to whom you will trust to and invest your time and energy, some are good to you but they are like vampires who will suck you anytime and use you for their own selfish desires. I really have to be careful this time and invulnerable. 

If there is one thing that I love about myself is I never let my situation define my worth, define my value or define my future. I am more than a CONQUEROR. NO matter who I am, where I am , what I've done right or wrong, I still have a TOMORROW that will be better than my YESTERDAY.  God made me beautiful and  only God can judge me. Whatever I want to be, do and have in this life GOD is with me always. I am worth it.



Love always♥mhargie♥

Monday, December 28, 2015

CHRISTMAS 2015

My Christmas 2015 was been great. I was able to attend at our yearly party and reunion at the same time with my real friends. I've been receiving some party invitations from some good friends unfortunately I was not able to come. I've been reflecting of my whole year's experiences and life lessons that this year has brought. So many struggles and challenges but still great for me and I remember that due to stressed and urgent things  I was not able to plan and focus on my Faith goals 2015. So I pray next year 2016, will be more focus to all areas of my life.  I would share my 2015 Faith Goals soon and there are so many things that been running on my mind that I'd like to share here on my personal blog since Im starting to love writing and blogging again. Sweetnight ♥

Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, November 7, 2015

My longing Soul...








So this is the right time for me to share this. This is one of the most important reflections that I have had in my life so far. I realized that I was living my life with hatred and regrets in my heart for these past few years . And the result, I was messed up in all areas. I made many wrong decisions in life. People cares for me but I did not value anything because I became self centered person.  For these past few years, I made my self believe that I have a strong mind and brave heart that I can do all things with my own capabilities. I  had forgotten that I am only a HUMAN. I have a good heart but misunderstood by many. For these past few years,  I was also living  in unhealed pain and pretending I am okay. But I am only a Human, it was reflected in my actions and how I deal with people around me. So everything was became chained reactions. My heart became so cold and gray. I was stressed but I did not realize it until my health suffered. I was misunderstood by many because they do not understand that I was having a hard time handling my sentiments and relationship due to health reasons. I was longing to the love that this world cannot give and satisfied my soul. I was surrounded by wrong people. I was LOST at all. I was reached the point where anxiety holded me a hostage inside of my house, inside of my head and my heart was like a high fever that will break me anytime. I have reached the point where I can not handle my life anymore and my soul was been restless. I've been searching and desperately longing until I found the right path where God is waiting for me at the end. I have learned that God is always been there for me but I was too attached with worldly things that separates God's love from me. I was so busy in every details of this world that I had forgotten to surrender everything to Him yet He saved me after all. He did not judge me based on my mistakes and failures due to my selfish desires. I am his princess. I am loved. I am valued.  I missed him. I missed the love that this world cannot give. I believe he has saved me time and again. He has always been my hope and salvation. I can now declare  I AM FREE.  I AM AT PEACE. I AM LOVED WITH AN AMAZING LOVE. I am starting all over again. God is fixing and healing all broken pieces and areas of my life. 



Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, October 18, 2015

I am SORRY.

I would like to apologize to all my bestfriends, truefriends and you who always been there for me :-( I am so sorry to all things I have done. I know you guys will never forget the ungrateful things that I have said and done.I know, what I have done was unjust. I AM SORRY. I am sorry because I allowed hatred to lead my heart. I AM SORRY because I did not value anything.I AM SORRY because I was selfish.  You were probably do not understand me at all, I know.  I have messed up,  life tore us apart, but no matter where I am or what I’m doing, there is always a place in my heart, just for all of you. I will never forget how good you were to me. We may not have spoken since a long time. But nothing can steal the memories. I wanna ask for unconditional love and understanding , maybe it's too much but I believe things will fall into its proper places at the right time. 

As my best friends, I know you guys have the rights to demand an apology. As your best friend, I hope you know I have the right to demand forgiveness. I AM SORRY.

Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Strong Enough

Cause I'm broken and down to nothing. But I'm still holding on to the one thing. You are God and you are strong when I am weak.

I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength and I don't have to be Strong enough... Strong enough....



Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, August 15, 2015

“Well, now
If little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you
Little by little
If suddenly you forget me
Do not look for me
For I shall already have forgotten you...

If you think it long and mad the wind of banners that passes through my life
And you decide to leave me at the shore of the heart where I have roots. Remember that, on that day, at that hour, I shall lift my arms and my roots will set off to seek another land” .



― Pablo Neruda, Selected Poems



Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Preserve Your Power!

Preserve Your Power! Not everybody and everything is worth your energy. Sometimes silence is best. You can't be powerful by giving your power away to every little thing that tries to block you and stop you. Remember, NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER!!! Unplug from negative people. Let them go. Turn them off. Hit delete. Press stop. Press pause. If you want to have a powerful relationship, stop feeding into negative energy. If you want to have a powerful paycheck, stop feeding into negative energy at work. If you want to have a powerful life, stop feeding into drama on Facebook. SOMEBODY needs to give you power. SOMEBODY needs to love you back. SOMEBODY needs to help you. SOMEBODY needs to support you. Sometimes that person is YOU! Love yourself enough to preserve your power for the people & situations that are worth it. If you preserve your power, you'll preserve yourself!

Love always♥mhargie♥

Thursday, January 30, 2014




 A real man can't stand seeing his woman hurt. He is careful with his decisions and actions so he never have to be responsible for her pain.


Love always♥mhargie♥

Sometimes...

As a woman, sometimes I don't want much. I just want someone who will listen to my problems or just listen to what I want to say. Someone who will understand and not judge . Someone who will love me unconditionally, will not give up on me and will be there when I need him.

Love always♥mhargie♥

Tuesday, January 28, 2014





                                Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, January 19, 2014

I BELIEVE...


I BELIEVE only the women who are working on themselves, forgiving the past, building their value & self worth, striving to be better, believes that love is possible and speaks HIGHLY of relationships and happiness... Exudes and works on their confidence & self love... Those who are uneasily moved and rattled and can handle difficult situations yet remain powerful... Those who know how to be graceful, humble, coachable, lovable, understanding, but won't settle for B.S... Those who are authentically sexy, secure in who they are, always learning, makes mistakes but finds the lesson, hard working, patient and loyal, spiritually plugged in and WISE enough to see the God & strength in a worthy MAN... Those women will be the VALUABLE WIVES to the rare WORTHY MEN that are left. Those who choose to believe & behave differently will spend the rest of their lives alone... Or with someone that isn't worthy of having ANY of this. 

S.C. Sykes


Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, December 8, 2013

THANK YOU ♥

Lord, I just want to say THANK YOU. Thank you for giving me purpose when I felt like my life was lost. Thank you for giving me strength when I felt like I couldn't go on. Thank you for giving me hope when my circumstances started to take my faith. Thank you for giving me love when hate was trying to harden my heart. Thank you Lord for being my light.


Love always♥mhargie♥

Friday, December 6, 2013

Beautiful song ♥


Even the best fall down sometimes
Even the wrong words seem to rhyme
Out of the doubt that fills my mind
I somehow find
You and I collide ♥


       Collide by Howie Day♥




Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, December 1, 2013

I want someone who will. . .

STAY no matter how hard it might get..and be there when I need him the most♥

NEVER GIVE UP on me when times get tough and willing to fight for me just as hard as I’m willing to fight for him and will be afraid of losing me and NEVER LET ME GO.♥
 
Push me everyday to be better than I was yesterday♥

Be my BEST FRIEND as well as my LOVER and always has his eyes on me and never have a look on anyone else.

Take care of my heart when everything falls apart♥ 

Respect and trust me, be loyal and will not take advantage to me,  treat me right, notice the little things I do, cuddle with me, and appreciate everything about me♥

Not try to change me into something I’m not and love me for who I am and support me♥

Walk into my life and STAY ON PURPOSE and be something that I never had to make me realize why it never worked out with anyone else.♥

Be down for spontaneous adventures with me & those days where we can spend hours doing nothing and we can still have fun and cherish every moment with me, bring up good times rather than bad times. Be silly & make me laugh when I’ve had a bad day♥

Take a ride on the highest roller coaster with me and travel the world. We’ll go Rome, Paris, London and so much more together♥

Lay under the stars with me at night, do all the cute things couples do and try everything he could just to see me happy♥

Call me at 5 in the morning just to say “I LOVE YOU” and send me cute cheesy text messages♥

Always send me good morning and goodnight and long text messages in the middle of the night so when i wake up in the morning i’ll have a smile on my face ♥

Talk to me when he has an issue and not put it all out on twitter or facebook♥

Do stuff like this.♥

Be just as weird as I am♥

GROW OLD with me so we can be that old couple slowing down traffic around town someday :) ♥

and most of all, I want someone who will walk with God and~LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALLY♥

 love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Important things I have learned in life so far.....

  • I have learned that I am a person worth loving after all. 
  • It may seem funny, but I have learned that people you aren’t related to can take care of you ,love you and teach you to trust people again.
  •  I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation.
  • I have learned that  my friends are there to understand and support me.
  • I have learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
  • I have learned that a good feeling gets even better when it’s shared. 
  • I have learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
  • I have learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
  • I have learned that if you depend on others to make you happy, you’ll be endlessly disappointed.
  • I have learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
  • I have learned that God has always been there for me . I believe he has saved me time and again… He has always been my hope and salvation,.


I am happy. I experienced it. There may be highlights and lowlights but in the end, what matters most is I Survived.
        Stay strong. Stay happy. Stay alive!



Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, November 17, 2013

“It happens to everyone as they grow up. You find out who you are and what you want, and then you realize that people you've known forever don't see things the way you do. So you keep the wonderful memories, but find yourself moving on.” 
― Nicholas Sparks

Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, November 16, 2013

God makes everything happen at the perfect time.♥

God makes everything happen at the perfect time.♥

                       Waiting is one of the most difficult things to do, whether we’re waiting for a bus, a phone call or an answered prayer.  We become impatient and wonder why everyone else is holding us up and keeping us from getting what we want.  It seems like the more we want something, the harder it is to wait – and we even get impatient with God!
                      But we have to remember that God’s timing is different than our own.  He sees things from a different perspective and sees the whole picture, not just what we want, but what is best for us in the grand plan for our lives.  All is part of a divine order and will be done in its own right and proper time.  Of course, when we are hoping, praying and waiting for something, it’s easy to forget this.  After all, waiting is “remaining inactive in one place while expecting something.”  And being inactive means feeling powerless and at the mercy of the world – nobody likes that feeling.  But we must keep in mind God’s greater plan and his perfect timing♥


Waiting is one of the most difficult things to do, whether we’re waiting for a bus, a phone call or an answered prayer.  We become impatient and wonder why everyone else is holding us up and keeping us from getting what we want.  It seems like the more we want something, the harder it is to wait – and we even get impatient with God!

But we have to remember that God’s timing is different than our own.  He sees things from a different perspective and sees the whole picture, not just what we want, but what is best for us in the grand plan for our lives.  All is part of a divine order and will be done in its own right and proper time.  Of course, when we are hoping, praying and waiting for something, it’s easy to forget this.  After all, waiting is “remaining inactive in one place while expecting something.”  And being inactive means feeling powerless and at the mercy of the world – nobody likes that feeling.  But we must keep in mind God’s greater plan and his perfect timing♥


love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, November 3, 2013

       There is a place in each of us that wants to heal, that can heal, that will heal. It’s a peaceful place, one of nourishment, replenishment, peace, safety, comfort, and joy. it’s a place of love and acceptance. It’s a place of forgiveness, honesty, openness, nurturing, and kindness. You will recognize it instantly because of how it feels. It will bring you back to center. It will bring you back to calm. It will bring you back to joy.♥
Find a place of serenity…….

Love always♥mhargie♥

Sunday, October 27, 2013

On your road to recovery, Keep the Faith!


Sometimes, the road to recovery is a long one.
There are detours filled with disappointments and frustrations.
It is difficult to move ahead, not knowing what the future may bring. You are on that road now, and all the medicine in the world cannot reassure you.You hold life by the reins, afraid they’ll slip.Right now the pain around you limits your vision and growth. We all taking for granted. And when the hardships come, we feel that we a being tested —sometimes beyond the point of endurance.But take heart and KEEP THE FAITH. 
Know that at the end of the dark tunnel there is a LIGHT.
The answer lies within you, in the spirit with which you brave the battle.The pain  and suffering are not you, but only a part of you. Hold your head up, and keep true to the brightness within yourself. Move on and never look back,filled with hope and love for what you have endured And reach out with warm hands and an open heart to help others like you..


—Who can learn to move on, too. 
                                                            

Love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, October 26, 2013

TO HEAL FROM THE INSIDE OUT IS THE KEY….

     Nobody ever said that it would be easy, or that the skies would always be sunny. When gray days and worrisome times come along, I need to stay strong. Know everything will be okay because I believe there is always a door that leads to more serenity in life♥ I wanna warm my self with quiet determination and knowledge of brighter days ahead to find happiness that  is waiting for me. As I allow God to guide me in the pacing of my life. As I open my heart to God’s unfoldings, my heart attains peace. As I relax into God’s timing, my heart contains comfort,  finding myself in the right time and place, open and available to God’s opportunities.♥ 

AS I REST AND HEAL…


      I’m thankful to those people who have lent their ears and hearts to me and to those who have cared. Today I’m giving myself whatever gifts of time and rest that i need to feel better and knowing that I have surrounded by caring thoughts, prayers, heartfelt wishes and God’s love♥ 

love always♥mhargie♥

Saturday, October 12, 2013

Dear Future Husband,


I can’t wait to fall in love with you. Maybe we have met each other already,Only God knows. I'll guard my heart every second of everyday until God allows us to meet.I’m so excited to meet you, but more than that, I’m excited to grow in Christ as He prepares my heart for you. I pray for you all the time. I hope your faith in God is strong and you’re the kind of man who covers up dirty magazines and you care about the innocence of children and helping make the world a bit less depraved.I promise to love you with my all and I hope you love God more than you love me too.

love always♥mhargie♥

             

Monday, May 6, 2013

The Fearless Chic ♥About me♥




~Do things with passion or not at all, wherever you go, Go with all your heart~


♥ Hi dear! Welcome to my hide away, my secret place. Just call me Mhargs♥ a blogger from southeast asia❀. I'm just a simple passionate dreamer. I can stand as sweet as a cherry , friends with many and never really alone. I have a warm spot in my heart to help others strive and trying to put others before myself. My heart is pure with love and I love rain, sunsets and smell of books♥ I am a free-spirited and passionate person. I like spending my  free time reading, blogging, scrap booking and exploring.  I do what I love♥ I'm always curious. If I don’t like something , then I will change it. If I don’t like my job , I will quit. I like to find happiness in the simplest of things. When I eat, I always appreciate every last bite. I am a very open-minded person, creative, optimistic and love new things and people. 



RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME:

ღ I love GOD♥
ღ I love sunset♥
ღ I would like to write a book someday. 
ღ I can travel alone. 
ღ I love writing, reading and decorating. 
ღ I can do different hairstyles on my hair.
ღ I chew gum almost everyday if I have it.
ღ I love horror movies and reality shows.
ღ I can go anywhere I want without asking permission from my parent.
ღ I love to organize my things.
ღ I like simple, neat and clean guy.
ღ I say “alright” a LOT
ღ I am very  open-minded person.
ღ I love to do things freely.
ღ I accept compliment as a compliment itself.
ღ I love chinese food, filipino, italian and some spicy foods.
ღ One of my dreams is to go to paris♥
ღ I love to wear loose dresses.
ღ I am creative person.
ღ I sleep beside my mom.
ღ I love to wear high heel shoes.
ღ I’m naturally  right handed.
ღ I really enjoy just walking around sometimes, it gives me time to clear my head.
ღ I read newspaper everyday.
ღ I love singing in the bathroom.
ღ I don’t like calling people “sir or mam”.
ღ I can’t sleep without socks on.
ღ I love to decorate my stuff particularly my notes and journal.
ღ I have more than 10 blogs from different blog sites.
ღ I love to read magazines and inspirational books.
ღ I have extroverted personality.
ღ I cry when i am angry and any time.
ღ I sleep silently with 2-3 pillows .
ღ I am so much addicted to cake and ice cream.
ღ I love talking about relationships and human interaction.
ღ I go to mall and somewhere I’ve never been  when stressing out.
ღ I have a very good memory.
ღ I love personality tests.
ღ I take a bath 2 times a day, first in the morning and second is before I go to sleep. 
ღ Traveling is good for me=)Because it’s a way for me to unwind myself.
ღ I have so many pouches in my bag.
ღ People see me as independent and strong person.
ღ I drink a lot of water everyday.
ღ I always bring my notes, journal and at least 1 book anywhere I go.
ღ Whenever im using the Internet, I always check websites that offers true and valuable information.
ღ I like to meet new people.
ღ I can’t live without internet.
ღ I hate being Tickled.
ღ I don’t know how to swim=)
ღ I have a scar in my right feet.
ღ I have big mole on my left shoulder.
ღ I sometimes don’t follow rules.
ღ I bite my fingernails.
ღ I don’t watch asianovelas or teleserye.
ღ I hate being scared of the dark.
ღ I’m very appreciative person
ღ I love biking♥





To my visitors:

♥You may read anything I post here but I disabled the follow button and comment section because this is my personal Blog and I want everything to be neat and clean.

So what more can I say? Just Be yourself because God made you for a beautiful reason♥ and you know what's nice?! No one in this world who’s quite like you so stop over-analyzing things. There are so many beautiful reasons to be happy so go out. Be weird, Be crazy!  Learn to let go and move on with life,  It’s better not to worry about every little thing and just go about life with a bit more optimism and confidence – it makes you stronger and more independent in life and everything seems brighter! Just keep on learning, exploring and find happiness in the simplest of things because Life is too short to be wasted on crap♥

God bless you!  love always-mhargie♥